How to Build a Thoughtful Parenting Plan in California That Actually Works

Although a divorce is hard on anyone, it can be especially difficult for parents who have young kids and/or teenagers. One of the big tasks will be working out a child custody and child visitation arrangement. Among other things, you will need a parenting plan. Divorce mediation in California can be a useful tool to build a thoughtful parenting plan that actually works. Here you will find an overview of parenting plans and how mediation can help you and your spouse reach one.

What is a Parenting Plan in California?

As explained by the California Courts, a parenting plan is a legally binding order/agreement that addresses key issues related to custody and visitation, including how children will be cared for, where they will live, and how often they will see each parent.

Notably, a parenting plan is generally required in California for divorcing parents of minor children. Indeed, courts expect parents to submit a proposed parenting plan as part of the custody process. If the parents cannot agree, the court will establish a plan based on the child’s best interests.

Mediation Can Be a Great Way to Build a Parenting Plan that Works

Parenting plans generally involve some “give and take” between the parties. Indeed, parenting plans work best when parents are able to work together to come to an agreement that best works for their child(ren) and their specific situation. While parenting plans often have common elements, they should be personally tailored. Mediation can be a great way for parents in California to work cooperatively and collaboratively to build a thoughtful parenting plan. It allows for:

• Open, Respectful Communication: Parents do not want to end up in a big fight over their kids. Mediation creates a calm, non-adversarial space where parents can talk honestly and productively. This process fosters understanding, not blame. Even if there is disagreement, a trained mediator helps guide the conversation toward solutions rather than conflict. 
• A Focus on the Best Interests of the Child: In California, the best interests of the child determine custody and visitation. Mediation puts the child’s needs at the center of every conversation. Rather than arguing over “winning” custody, both parents work together to create a plan that supports the child’s health, safety, and well-being.
• Customized, Flexible Schedules and Parenting Plans: Every family is different. Mediation allows parents to create a parenting plan that fits their real-life routines, work schedules, school calendars, and special traditions. Indeed, the process supports creative problem solving. Unfortunately, that is something that California courts may simply not be able to offer in the more rigid setting of a formal hearing.

We are Leaders in Helping Parents Navigate Divorce Mediation in California

At Peacemaker Divorce Mediation Group – California Resolution Experts, our California divorce mediation team has the skills and experience to work with parents. If you have any questions about parenting plans and divorce mediation, we are here to help. Contact us today for a confidential consultation. We provide divorce mediation services to parents throughout California.