Most people who are preparing to end their marriage want to find a peaceful, amicable resolution. Of course, that is often challenging. Separation is hard. Divorce mediation in California can be a great tool for couples who are looking for a low-conflict result. At Peacemaker Divorce Mediation Group – California Resolution Experts, we have extensive family mediation experience. Our team helps to empower people to find amicable solutions. Here is a step-by-step guide on how divorce mediation works in California
Step #1: Make the Mutual Choice to Try Mediation
Mediation can be a great tool for collaborative problem-solving. It works in many divorce cases, but it is not something that you can do on your own. To start, you and your spouse need to make the mutual decision to agree to mediate your case. Both spouses agree to sit down with a neutral third party to work through the issues with dignity and cooperation. In California, choosing mediation can preserve privacy, reduce legal costs, and lower emotional strain
Step #2: Research and Pick the Right Mediator for Your Divorce
Finding the right mediator matters. California does not require divorce mediators to be attorneys, but many are experienced family law professionals trained in conflict resolution. A compassionate mediator will create a safe, calm space where each party is heard and supported. Among other things, they will guide you through legal and emotional complexity without judgment. Remember, the mediator does not take sides: They help you clarify goals, understand the issues, know your options, and make informed decisions. A mediator is a facilitator of productive communication.
Step #3: Identify the Issues to Resolve Together (Easy and Hard)
You need to know all the issues that you have to work through, both the easy ones and the hard ones. Every couple faces a unique set of issues: property division, child custody, support, and more. In mediation, you work through each topic collaboratively and privately, at your own pace. The mediator helps clarify what needs to be addressed and ensures both voices are equally valued. In California, even complicated financial or parenting matters can be handled in mediation with honesty and kindness
Step #4: Attend Mediation Session(s) and Work Towards an Agreement
You may attend one or more mediation sessions. It will depend on the complexity of your case and how much progress can reasonably be made. Many divorces only require a single session of mediation, but you do not have to rush it. The process itself (mediation session) can vary. In some cases, the parties stay together for most or all of the time. In other cases, there will be a lot of separation to try to work out issues. Once you and your spouse reach common ground, the mediator will help document your agreements in writing. In California, that document becomes your Marital Settlement Agreement, and it will be submitted to the court to finalize your uncontested divorce.
We are Proud to Be Leaders in Divorce Mediation in California
At Peacemaker Divorce Mediation Group – California Resolution Experts, we are proud to be leaders in divorce mediation. If you have any specific questions or concerns about the steps of the divorce process, please do not hesitate to contact us today for a fully confidential consultation. We provide divorce mediation services throughout California.